FOR STUDENT HUSBANDS ONLY
This is an addendum to Sexercise #3. If you are not ready to complete this item, please exit this page now.
While your wife is pleasing herself, there are a few things that you want to make sure you pay attention to:
Where does she touch herself and how? Does she use light touch? Hard touch? All over? Only on her genitals?
If she touches her breasts at all, how did she touch them? Lightly? One hand or two? Does she caress them? Squeeze them? What about her nipples? Does she give them extra attention at all? Does she touch them only for a time, throughout the entire time, or at the beginning/end?
When she touches her genitals, how does she do it? One hand or two? If two hands, does she use them in different ways or do they perform similar functions?
Does she stimulate her clitoris? How? Does she rub it? Pinch/pull it? Does she touch above or below it? Does she go in a circular motion? How many fingers does she use?
Does she penetrate her vagina with one or more of her fingers? Does she do so just around the entrance or with deep strokes?
Does she touch or rub her perineal/anal area? Does she penetrate herself anally? If so, in what manner? Does she stimulate this area in conjunction with her vaginal caresses?
While she is pleasuring herself, do you notice any variation in pattern? Does she alternate between any areas (breasts, vagina, etc.)? Does the pattern or pace alter at all?
What is her body position during this time? Is she on her back? Side? Face? Are her legs up or down? Are they open slightly or fully? If she is on her stomach, are her hips/buttocks up in the air or flat down on the bed/couch?
As your wife begins to climax, there are a few things that you need to make sure you are paying attention to:
Are you able to detect when she is getting closer to orgasm? Do you notice changes in breathing? Do you notice changes in the area of her self-caress, or in the intensity of it?
As she is approaching her orgasm, do you notice that she is using any form of plateau pattern (i.e. that she is speeding up/slowing down the pleasure intentionally)? Do you get a sense that she is attempting to prolong the pleasure through controlling her caress/response?
When she begins to climax, does her body convulse/contract in any visible ways? Are her hips moving in any particular direction? Are they going upwards off the bed or do they appear to be pushing into the bed with her upper torso rising up? Look at her legs. Are they straight and stiff or pulled up tight?
What about her facial expressions? Does she look relaxed or “pained” during her climax? Is she making any sounds or noises that give indication that the pleasure is more intense? As she climaxes, do you get a sense of how long her orgasm lasts? When she is in the most intense part of her pleasure, are there places/ways that she is touching herself other than her vagina/clitoris?
As you are taking notes in your mind about your wife’s pleasure responses, mentally record any points of curiosity/inquiry that you would like to discuss after the Sexercise is complete.